Cell Phones on the Move, Texting on the Road

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I was driving a service truck in prehistoric times.

If you couldn’t afford radios you just called in to the shop when you finished every job to see if they had any new work on hold.  Then came the days when I carried a pager, a pocket full of quarters, and I knew where all the handy public phones were.  It only took a few minutes to find a phone when the beeper went off.  Unless I was stuck in traffic, on a job,  or the page didn’t go through.

When cell phones came along all my communications downtime disappeared.   I didn’t like spending too much time on the phone while driving because it distracted me, but phones quickly became an important part of a mobile business, so I adapted.

Fast forward 25 years.   I haven’t remained frozen in the past.  I text my kids and use my phone as an mp3 player, but  I still don’t spend too much time on the cell phone while driving because it still distracts me.   However,  society has adapted in a big way.

The percentage of people driving around with a cell pressed to their ear is alarming, and  it amuses me when I see someone having an animated conversation in a car alone when I know they’re talking via a hands free phone.  The sad truth is though, that the people driving these cars are frequently driving erratically.

I can almost bet that every car I see being driven erratically is being driven by a person with a cell phone pressed to their ear, or worse.  Which brings me to what this little blurb has been sneaking up on all along.

Exactly when did we as a nation of people become so self absorbed that we need to have laws passed telling us that it’s unsafe to do something that demands as much attention as sending text messages while driving a vehicle on our streets and highways?  How can a person even feel save sending a text while stopped at a red light?  You’re supposed to be watching the light and cross traffic for gods sake, and you’re sitting behind the wheel of a running multi-ton weapon  pressing itsy bitsy keys on a tiny cell phone broadcasting your thoughts into the ethers in 160 characters or less.

It boggles my mind and scares the hell out of me, both at the same time.

On an entirely different note, what are you going to do when your web goes down?  When you can’t afford, or just can’t have the internet, the phones, and the other digital bells and whistles we’ve all become accustomed to living with?  The question threatens the hell out of some people.  How about you?

Gay Couples Bite The Big Weenie Again

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Showing the rest of New England that their moral beliefs weren’t decided by geography, the citizens of Maine said NO to a proposed law allowing same sex marriage.  The vote was close, 53% to 47%.  Both sides spent close to Maine’s ‘08 budget on their respective campaigns, and most of it came from out of state.  Very much the same way prop 8 was passed in California not so long ago.

So when are they going to give up?  When are gay marriage proponents going to get the message that there are only a few overly liberal states that are willing to accept their ideas?  Six states actually.  The chances are that as time goes by those six states will end up repealing their same sex marriage laws too.

The thing that keeps them going is money.  My intuition says that the same sex movement is being fronted by gays with an honest desire to achieve same sex marriage, but it’s being administered and driven by a group of highly paid, uncommitted workers who’ll fight the good fight as long as there’s enough money to keep them interested in the cause.  Take away the money and the uncommitted will go looking for another cause that needs help.

Another day in Paradise

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We had the kids over the other day and learned something, surprised the hell out of myself, I actually learned something.

I walked into the kitchen where my son was leaning on the sink, he looked me in the eyes and asked me a simple question.  “What’s your favorite thing in the whole world Dad,” is what he asked.  It took me less than two seconds to find the answer, form the words and spit them out into the air.  It amazed him that I came up with the answer so fast.

I told him in my most sage voice, I said, grasshopper, if you have a favorite thing, you know it.  You know it all the way to your bones.  If you’re asked that question and you don’t have a fast answer, then you don’t really have a favorite thing yet.

In my mind I realized that if you really have a favorite thing, you can taste it, remember the last time you touched it or experienced it like it happened just seconds ago, and if there’s no way for you to physically have that thing again it’s OK, because you can bring it back into your mind anytime you want to as if you’re doing it now.

See, my favorite thing is catching Yellowtail in the Pacific.  Not fishing for them, but catching them.  I almost feel sorry for one particular 40 pound yellow I caught off North Island below San Diego.  I’ve caught that poor fish hundreds and hundreds of times now.

Life can be another day in paradise, or it can be another day in Idaho Falls.  It’s my decision.  I don’t spend a lot of time in Idaho Falls, I don’t have to.

Obama. What the Fuck?

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Don’t get me wrong here.  I like Obama.  I like his politics, I respect his intentions, and I think he’ll eventually succeed in pulling us out of the shit hole we’re in and land us on firmer economic and humanitarian soil.

BUT

To this point he’s done the things most other presidential nominees have done after they attained office.  He’s forgotten, or discarded many of his campaign promises.  In his case many of them to the minority groups that got him elected.

Soldiers and innocents are still dying in Iraq and Afghanistan. The world recession has yet to abate.  He focuses on securing the Olympic Games for his home city of Chicago, and has beer parties to smooth over a televised racial fauz paus involving a professor and a policeman.

He threatens our enemies, and cajoles with our friends on the world stage.

As far as I can tell the great peace miester has only one accomplishment that might make him a suitable receptor for the Nobel.  He  got elected President of the United States of America.  He could have accepted inauguration with ammo belts crossing his chest, AR 15’s in each hand, chewing a Cuban cigar, and wearing wifebeaters and capris and he’d have still received the award.

The fact that his election soothed the unrest in much of the Muslim and non Muslim black world is the only thing that has earned him the Nobel, and the only thing that soothed that unrest is that he is black.

What a fucked up world we live in.

Uninspired

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Not dead, off line,  or in prison.  Just uninspired.

I should have never sent those bastards at Blizzard another 15 bucks, but I really did have to see how well my hot new puter fared in the World of Warcraft.  60 FPS everywhere in the game is nice.  Quick, someone has to do an intevention on me before I turn into an orc, a night elf, or some other equally crappy fantasy race from the land of where the fuck ever.

Toodles, I’ve about got my fill, but not quite yet.

Meditative Wonderment

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Lets see what the search engines do with that title.

I do meditative walks most mornings, and will until the weather hits the 30’s.  At that point I’ll retire to my treadmill with a warm seasons worth of memories, and my patchouli scented prayer beads in my hand.

So far I haven’t started carrying a set of prayer beads where I’ve scented the beads, they retain a bit too much oil and give off too much aroma.  You can smell the patchouli from 30 ft., even when I have them in my pocket when I treat the beads.  So I treat the hemp cord on my beads with oil and that keeps the smell closer to home.

I’ll be treating the beads on a new string when I start using that treadmill.  It’s going to be a sweet smelling exercise room.

Now about that Meditative Wonderment.  Since I began using walking meditation a few years ago, walking has evolved into a completely new type of activity for me. It begins like any walk of course, you’ve got to get headed in the right direction,  make sure all you’re body parts are working properly, and that your dressed for a walk instead of a swim.

But then the walk is allowed to assume a rhythm of its own while you merely come along to experience the ride, and  be aware of your surroundings. Your active mind’s only job on the walk is to remain alert enough to insure your safety and get you to where you’re going.

The basic concept of leaving the active mind minimally involved allows you to experience everything that’s presented to you as you walk through the streets, or the park, or along the shore.  All three venues are equally enlightening when you walk meditatively.

You can walk and not think about the bills, or what’s for dinner tonight.  You won’t need to wonder what your mother in law meant by the quick little comment she snuck in as she was leaving the night before.  You can walk into a space where you find absolute peace which allows a calmness to come to you that you wouldn’t have otherwise had.

In that calmness answers that may have remained hidden sometimes reveal themselves, and subtle beauty becomes obvious almost everywhere.

Wonderment.

Idaho Falls!

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It must have something to do with dust from the fertilizer and weed poison I just used on my back yard grass, but the name of the city I live in just took on a different meaning.  This may go deep, or it may stay in the shallow  pool where my mind is comfy this time of day.

The battle for Idaho has raged  for years.  Conservative cronies,  steeped in power have ruled from the hallowed halls of Boise for longer than potatoes have grown in the shallow soil of the Snake River Valley.  Democrats, Libertarians,  centrists and liberals of every description have been crushed in the steel grip of Idaho’s conservative core.

In the past Idaho has beat back every recession, and every dip in employment numbers.  Anytime something happened in the nation that was fiscally bad, Idaho’s conservative leaders found a way to stay in the black, and they’ve done it themselves.

Now their conservative might has  lost its punch.  They’ve  lost the ability to keep wages at a low enough point to keep everyone employed.   They can’t snap their their fingers and make the numbers come out black, and cooking the books doesn’t count.

So the Fiercely Independent Cowboys of Boise did the same thing that every other state in the country did.  They backed up to the President with their hat in their hands and accepted their portion of the money they said they didn’t want.  Idaho’s conservatives have been Obama’d.

With the insertion of Obama money,  the California invasion into Idaho, and the nationwide awakening to the fact that conservative ideals got us into the fix we’re in, Idaho’s good old boy network is doomed.

Idaho may not have fallen all the way, but it’s fallen off the pedestal that conservatives in Boise have been struggling to hold her on, and they’re never going to get her back up, or keep her up without the help of liberals and centrists that they’ve been holding down.

Just think, it took Obama to bring down Idaho, the whitest state in the land.

Breathe

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When left to my own devices I spend way too much time over amped.  I get all squinty eyed, looking for who did it, and why things aren’t working the way they should be.  Who screwed everything up anyway?  I have a general tendency of thinking myself into a tizzy.

That’s why a good friend took me aside about 30 years ago and told me that I should read a skinny little book by a guy named Jess Lair.  He said that if I didn’t read this skinny little book I was probably going to think myself to death.

That  book  (I don’t Know Where I’m Going, But I Sure Aint Lost) introduced me to meditation and changed my life.

Mind you it didn’t happen right away, and if you read more than a few articles in this blog, you can tell I don’t meditate constantly.  But, the fact remains that over the last 30 years the practice of meditation has given me the gift of being able to turn my overactive mind off in the time it takes to focus on the taking of one complete breath.

Nothing frustrates my wife more than being in the midst of an argument with me and seeing me become mindful that I’ve lost my composure because she knows I’m about to  focus on that one breath, and then I’m going to smile and the argument is going to become a discussion.  Sometimes she’d rather have the discussion remain heated.

Mindfulness grants me freedom.  Awareness of breath grants me mindfulness.  Meditation taught me to be aware of my breath, and to experience mindfulness for the first time.

Mother Meera said something that I didn’t understand until I started using my breath to enter a mindful space.  I’ll share it with you.

“In silence one can receive more because all one’s activities become concentrated at one point. There is only one real rhythm; in silence you hear it. When you live to the rhythm of this silence, you become it, slowly; everything you do, you do to it.”
Mother Meera

Breathe.

Freecycle, The Dream And The Headache

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Freecycle.  I don’t know how many of you have heard about Freecycle, but it’s a nonprofit group composed of a great bunch of people.  And it’s HUGE.  It’s so huge that I even know about it.  I even moderate a fairly large group, and have been doing so since about two weeks after I heard about them almost five years ago.

They started out in Tuscon when a bunch of friends got tired of taking still usable items to the dump.  They put together a little network and started offering their tired but still usable items to each other  to see if anybody else could use the stuff before they took it to the landfill.  All the gifting was free and it was a form of recycling,  so the Freecycle name came into existence.

It grew like wildfire.  Other nonprofits and individuals were allowed to ask for items by placing “wanted” posts onto the Freecycle lists and the thing went viral.  At this point there are 4,800 groups and 7.2 million members around the world.

If you’d like to know more about it check out Freecycle.org

You get a pretty good look at the best and worst of what your local area has to offer when you’re moderating a Freecycle group.  People give away some wild items.  I’ve seen pipe organs, boats, cars, computer systems, gardens full of vegetables, loads of furniture,  tons of clothing, or just a pile of moving boxes offered on our list.

Although Freecycle asks that members not ask for extravagant items in their wanted posts, they sometimes seem to forget that simple Freecycle request, and go bat shit crazy when they let the group know what they’re looking for.  I’ve had members ask for camping trailers, old trucks, cars, apartments (ever see an apartment in a landfill?) and a zillion other weird things.

As if asking for this stuff isn’t enough they’ll send me messages demanding an explanation about why they can’t ask for that camp trailer, or advertise their business.  They want to see the corporate rule in writing where it says they can’t do what they want.  I shake my head in disbelief and wonder how we got so screwed up in thinking we’re entitled to everything.

Other people will do a garage cleaning and offer whole lists of items, 15 or 20 at a time, and they’ll get a call from someone saying they’ll take it all.  The person shows up in a pickup, loads it up and heads down the road.  Where’s it all going?  Garage sale, auction or EBAY?

It’s none of my business, I’m just the moderator, I listen to what my people tell me, and do the best I can to make the list work for them, but way down inside I have a real burning desire to be the internet police and ferret out the people who abuse such a cool system.

If you’d like to find out more check out Freecycle.com  There’s probably a group near you, and if there is you usually find some cool offers on it.  If you’d like you can can offer some of your own stuff instead of sending it off to the dump.  Or hey, maybe you need a few pots and pans or a couple pair of gently used jeans?

Health Care ?

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I haven’t avoided this topic for any special reason.  It just hasn’t attracted my attention enough to get me to pound on my keyboard about it.  It doesn’t sound very American of me does it?

The fact is, that I’ve been interested in the nationalism of the health care industry for years.  That really is what this new health policy is all about.  It’s not intended to be an opt in or use your own provider system. It’s all about nationalism.

It’ll look capitalist friendly in the beginning, but on the back end, medicine, medical insurance companies, and pharmaceutical corporations, will be controlled by the government because those institutions are a big part of the reason that America found itself in the fincial jam of the early 21st Century.

The economic crash was blamed on the financial institutions.   Many relaxed regulations, irresponsible management, illegal activities, and the funneling of billions of dollars into the subprime home loan market were reported to be  the culprits.

Looking at the problem a little closer, the medical industry had been siphoning  untold billions off the top of our economy for years, and the numbers of dollars they’ve set their sights on grows every year.

Insurance companies charge doctors higher prices for insurance so they can stay in business.  Doctors pass that cost along to their patients.  Insurance companies  charge their business provider costumers,  and their employees higher premium prices, also decreasing their their benefits, to increase their profits.

My medical insurance cost rose 20% this year.  My deductible went up from $750 to $1000, and my out of pocket maximum increased from $3,500 to $6,000.  Pretty sweet deal for the insurance company wouldn’t you say?

The drugs I take have been out of patient protection for years, but if I were to buy the 2 drugs I take every month as brand name without insurance, they’d cost  just over $800 every month.  Generics cost $260 without the help of my insurance company.  So my drug benefit and doctor office copay are the only real benefits I receive from my med insurance until I spend $3,500 on special tests and procedures.

I go to my doctor with a week long cough and the sniffles.  I sit in the outer office for a half hour, in a small waiting room for another 30 to 45 minutes.  He finally enters, asks how I’m doing, the nurse already wrote down my vitals, I tell him, he nods 3 times and says this is going around, hands me a prescription and is out the door in 3 minutes time.

I pay a $30 copay and the insurance sends him another $150.  $180 for 3 minutes of his time.  I could have called into his office and told him to send me a Z pack, a prescription of codeine cough syrup, and have him hit my debt card for a quick $50 and saved myself a lot of time.  But this is America and he should be able to make $150 for 3 minutes work if that’s what he wants to do.

So give me Nationalized Healthcare.  I already have to stand in line.  I’m already spending tons of money that I don’t really have on medical insurance that doesn’t give me what it says it’s going to give, and I’ve got plenty of apathetic doctors that aren’t going to change the way they do business just because there’s a different guy sending them their paycheck.  They’ll be happy that they don’t have to pay as much for their own medical insurance.

The ones who should worry are the medical insurance money changers  and the pharmaceutical companies .  They’re the ones that brought this thing down on their own heads.

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